Don't adjust to horoscope

"Don't be silly", have you ever heard someone say this to you? Definitely. Everyone has a blind spot that we may or may not be regularly antagonised by others. What can you sometimes blow up unnecessarily that you think afterwards, what was that really about? You can read about it in this Don't be such an asshole horoscope.

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Aries (March 21 - April 20)

Lingering worry about something you have no control over is totally your thing. This combined with your urge to take action is a problem. In the end, you want to do something about something that is out of your control, with the result that you don't succeed and then have something to brood about again.

Taurus (21 April - 21 May)

Because you are quite sensitive, you take many things unnecessarily personally. If someone makes an unkind or rude remark, you may feel uncomfortable about it for days or even weeks afterwards. Insecurities can also keep you awake. Not knowing where you stand or what is coming, you don't pull it off.

Gemini (22 May - 21 June)

You can look down on a social obligation that you don't really feel like doing. A birthday, a wedding, visiting your in-laws or even worse, your in-laws coming to visit you. Then you have no control over when they go home again and you have to sit out the drive all the way. Come, come, it's not that bad now.

Cancer (June 22-July 22)

Uncertainty about your own abilities, it is so deeply ingrained that sometimes you half don't realise what you are capable of. Besides, the glass is half empty instead of half full. Why assume the positive when you can doze off? Rehashing past situations ad infinitum, that's another thing.

Leo (July 23 - August 23)

Other people's approval is so important to you that you can hardly sleep if you get the slightest impression that someone might not like you very much. Furthermore, you possess king-sized emotions that make any kind of anger or disappointment unnecessarily blow up into a huge drama.

Virgo (August 24 - September 23)

You want to do everything so perfectly that you immediately see something you do 'just right' as failure. How high can you set the bar, Virgo? You also immediately turn off the tap if someone doesn't show enough gratitude for something you do for them. The ground you walk on needs to be kissed. At least.

Libra (September 24 - October 23)

Being loved is even more important than being successful. For this reason alone, you sometimes have a hard time saying no with the result that you are regularly up to your neck in commitments that you have to keep. You are so busy trying not to disappoint others that you shortchange yourself too often.

Scorpio (24 October - 22 November)

When you want something, you want it yesterday and very much too. In other words, you can become quite obsessed with something or someone. When you unexpectedly fail to reach your goal, this can be quite a wake-up call. Not being in control of something, it is not doable for you.

Sagittarius (November 23 - December 21)

Although you usually look at things from the positive side, you sometimes feel - completely unjustifiably - that no one loves you or understands you at all. Furthermore, you can make a huge fuss if something or someone threatens to upset your plans. People should adapt to you, rather not the other way around.

Capricorn (December 22 - January 20)

You constantly worry about whether you are meeting all your obligations and responsibilities, whether you are challenging yourself enough, have achieved enough, and whether you are getting the best out of yourself at all. The answer is yes, Capricorn. And although somewhere you know it yourself, you are still (too) often insecure about yourself. That's a shame.

Aquarius (January 21 - February 19)

You aspire to have a successful career, a loving relationship, an interesting circle of friends, self-reliance and independence and like to show that you have achieved all these. What you worry about most is someone discovering how shy and insecure you sometimes are because you see this as a form of weakness. Which, of course, it is not.

Pisces (20 February - 20 March)

If you are worried at all, it is especially hard for you and those around you not to talk about it. You keep your doubts and insecurities to yourself so that some problems end up seeming bigger than they really are. This is unfortunate and indeed often unnecessary.